The good old saying "good words for three winters, eyushangren June cold" in many cases, a compliment, you can give people sent to comfort, add courage, joy, even in the cold winter can feel the warmth of the sunshine. While an unseemly, like a sword, can hurt the hearts of people vulnerable, even in June this summer, will also feel a cold. You don't look down upon a very light, very short words, maybe you can change a person's life. When I was a training of listening to a teacher said such a story: A and B two hunters, together they go hunting, result two people each have two home rabbit hunting. A wife to see his hands just screwed up two rabbits, he coldly says: "you go out to work one day only hit two little rabbits? Really useless!", a hunter, a wife so to speak, is very frustrated, unhappy, they complain about his wife, thinking about you think hunting is easy to kill.? second days a hunter and uphill hunting, the home he deliberately empty, let his wife know hunting is not an easy thing. While B Hunter encountered situation is just the opposite, his wife to see him back to the two rabbits, very happy, rushed to his side of the bowl of water to drink, you one day hit two hares? A thumbs up, really great! ", B Hunter listened to his wife's praise with joy, thought, two rabbits count what, tomorrow I will catch more results on the second day he went to the mountain to play four hares back.

Two people speak two different words, and produced exactly the opposite result. Human nature is like themselves take the initiative to do something, rather than a passive, but the praise has such a magical effect. Everyone wants to be around people praise, hope that their value to be sure. Although we are in a very small world, but still thinks he is an important figure in the small world. Received praise from the society or others, our self-esteem and sense of honor get a lot of satisfaction. So we need to talk, said the dialogue, speak good words, say heartfelt praise of others. In fact, we have several most people are like to criticize others, others which do not, not good, but it is not willing to hear the criticism and dissatisfaction with myself, like to hear others praise yourself, but seldom from the heart to praise others, therefore, distance between people and people will become the farther. "Praise" is an art, a word to say happy, also can say sorry, learn to praise others, is to hold a master key to others in the world. So, remember to praise the people and things around, beautiful beautiful language to interpret the world needs.